Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you're overthinking, jumping to conclusions, or even feeling anxious or depressed, but you can't seem to pinpoint why?
Cognitive distortions may be the underlying cause.
These are thought patterns that have been distorted in some way, leading to inaccurate beliefs or perceptions. The good news is that with awareness, practice, and help from a professional therapist, you can learn to overcome these distortions and live a more balanced life.
In this blog post, we'll delve into what cognitive distortions are, what causes them, and how to best challenge them.
Cognitive distortions, also known as thinking errors, are common patterns of thought that often lead to negative emotions or behaviors. These distortions can manifest in various ways, such as:
Essentially, cognitive distortions are like tinted glasses that color our perception of reality, distorting how we interpret and react to the world around us. By becoming aware of these distortions and challenging them, individuals can gain a more accurate and balanced perspective, leading to improved emotional well-being and healthier behaviors.
Here are ten more common cognitive distortions people commonly experience:
There is no single cause for cognitive distortions. They may stem from a variety of factors, including low self-esteem, past experiences, upbringing, cultural norms, personality traits, and other environmental factors.
For instance, if you grew up with parents who were quick to blame or criticize, you may have developed a tendency toward negative self-talk. Additionally, if you are exposed to biased information through media outlets, social media, or friends and family members, this can also contribute to cognitive distortions.
The relationship between thinking patterns and cognitive distortions is that the former usually dictates the latter.
For instance, if you engage in negative self-talk, such as "I'm good at nothing," or engage in polarized thinking, such as "If I didn't win, I'm a failure," these thinking patterns can contribute to the development and reinforcement of cognitive distortions.
On the other hand, if you practice more balanced thinking, such as "I did my best, and that's enough," you are less likely to fall prey to these thought distortions.
If you're noticing cognitive distortions in your own life, the first step is to become more aware of them. Pay attention to the negative thoughts running through your head and write them down in a journal or on a piece of paper. Once you've identified them, ask yourself if these thoughts are based in reality or if they are distorted versions of the truth. You can then challenge these thoughts by looking for empirical evidence that supports or refutes them.
For instance, if you find yourself catastrophizing about a situation, such as assuming that everything will go wrong, ask yourself what is the likelihood of that really happening or identify what might go right.
You can also practice reframing your thoughts by looking for a more balanced interpretation of the situation or by thinking of alternative explanations. Cognitive-behavioral therapy can help you develop these skills further and provide more specific strategies for challenging different types of cognitive distortions.
Remember that change is possible, and reaching out for support is the first step toward a new chapter in your life. At Cerebral, our therapists specialize in helping individuals overcome cognitive distortions. They can work with you to identify and challenge these patterns, guiding you towards more balanced and accurate thinking. And best of all, you can meet with them in a convenient and safe online space.
Join Cerebral and get the professional support you need to experience life with a healthier mindset.
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